Always choose to heal, not to hurt, to forgive not to despise, to persevere not to quit, to smile not to frown, and to love not to hate.. at the end of the life, what really matters is not what we bought, but what we built, not what we got, but what we shared, not our competence but our character, and not our success but our significan ce. Live a life that matters. Live a life that cares..