The only way to convey anything to anyone is to first live it yourself and consistently provide an example of the behavior you desire in others.

Choose action over worry, faith over fear, gratefulness over focus on lack, optimism over pessimism and love over hatred. Choose the kind of day you are going to have today, and make it so. It is really a choice ~

When we lose something , we keep thinking about what we lost as if that was ALL we had. Something doesn't mean everything! Think.