First, crossing an ocean is talking about extreme things. Obviously we can't cross oceans for everyone. Moreover, while we give for the sake of Allah, Allah never asked us to kill ourselves in the process.

The more u give to these persons the more they do not appreciate u....they understand our kindness as weakness...i have done this for the sake of Allah...i don't want to lose my dignity ...Allah knows ...its enough for me..
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