"If you want to keep your relationship with your spouse healthy and strong, stop putting so much effort into maintaining relationships with other people. Every day we go out and we are ready to go out of our way to help anyone and everyone in their time of need, yet when our wives need emotional or physical support, we tend to see it more of a nuisance and a chore rather than something we enjoy doing. There’s a reason why the Messenger of Allah SAW recognized the people of best character as those who are best to their wives."

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