Narrated Abdullah radiAllahu anhu: Allah's Apostle salAllahu alaihi wasalam said, "Do not wish to be like anyone, except in two cases:
1 A man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it righteously
2 A man whom Allah has given wisdom (knowledge of the Quran and the Hadith) and he acts according to it and teaches it to others." Bukhari

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing

We have been taught to believe that negative equals realistic and positive equals
unrealistic