One of the most consistent mistakes men make with women is also one of the easiest to fix. When she complains about a problem, don't try to solve it or explain why it isn't a 'big deal'! Just empathize and validate the emotion! You'll get SO many points. Just understanding her feelings, will make her feel so much better!

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Remember when you were a little child trying to learn to walk? Maybe not, but I'm pretty sure it went something like this:

First you had to learn to stand: a process involving constantly falling down, then getting back up. You laughed sometimes and cried at other times. Somehow there was a determination and conviction that you would succeed, no matter what.

After much practice you finally figure out how to balance yourself, a necessary requirement. You enjoyed this new feeling of power - you'd stand everywhere you could - in your crib, by the couch, on someone's lap. It was a joyous time - you did it! You were in control of you.

Now - the next step - walking. You'd seen others do it - it didn't look that hard - just move your legs while you were standing, right? Wrong - more complexity than you ever imagined. More frustration than anyone should have to deal with. But you tried, again and again and again until you figured this out, too.

If people caught you walking, they applauded, they laughed, it was a, "Oh my God, look at what he's/she's doing". This encouragement fueled you on; it raised your self-confidence.

But how many times did you attempt when no one was watching, when no one was cheering? Every chance you got. You had places to go, things to see, knowledge to learn. You couldn't wait for someone to encourage you to take the next steps. You learned how to encourage yourself.

If we could only remember this about ourselves in today's day.

Remember that we can do anything we set our minds to if we are willing to go through the process, just like when we learned to walk. We don't need to wait for others to encourage us; we need to encourage ourselves.

If you've forgotten how to do this, or feel like your self-esteem needs a boost, take a short journey back through the your life - look at your accomplishments, no matter if they were large or small - you met the challenge and figured out a way to succeed.

Focus on all the things you thought you could never do, initially, and did. While going back, look for the little child you once were. Thank them for never giving up. As you wave goodbye, remember they will never give up on you. They have believed in you all of your life!

Now you need to believe in you too!

"Remember, today is the best day of your life because yesterday was and tomorrow may only be."






MusLimah ♥

EvEn Though a man is responsibLE for his gaze, you are responsible for what you give him to gaze aT.
♥ So guard your modesTy ♥



The way to Jannah is an uphill climb whereas Jahannam is downhill.
Hence, there is a struggle to get to Jannah but not to Jahannam.



HOPE is wishing something would happen,
FAITH is believing something will happen,



COURAGE is making something happen.



If you consistently indulge in major SINS then nothing remains MINOR when you stand infront of ♥ ALLAH ♥ swt, but if you consistently indulge in REPENTANCE then nothing remains MAJOR when you stand infront of ♥ ALLAH ♥ swt





‎" There can be no failure to a man who has not lost his Eeman,.... courage... His character, His self respect... Or his self-confidence...He is still a king....If you are made of the stuff that wins, if you have grit and nerve in you... Your misfortunes...
Losses... And defeats will call them out and make you all the stronger...."

Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the dominion, and He is Able to do all things.
Who has created death and life, (so) that He may test you which of you is best in deed. Surah Al Mulk (: 1 and 2)

Say: "He is the Most Beneficent (Allah), in Him we believe, and in Him we put our trust. (Surah Al Mulk : 29)

"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up."











Sometimes ALLAH doesn’t change your situation because He wants to change your heart.




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In Islam A Woman is always under the care of someone,

When she is young, she is under the care of her parents.
When she is married, she is under the care of her husband.
When she is old, she is under the care of her children.
These are her guardians and wordly protectors.

Look at how ALLAH takes care of them from Birth till Death Subhan,ALLAH!





“Why are we so quick to put to practice beauty tips and health advices and procrastinate when it comes to Islamic reminders?”



‎"Don't waste your time looking back at what you lost.
Move on. Remember life is not meant to be traveled backwards."




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“When my heart hardens and my paths constrict, I make my hope in You, my Lord, a stairway. My sins intimidate me with their greatness. But, when I compare them with Your Mercy, Your Mercy is greater!”
— Imam al-Shaf’i



‎"If you treat Salah as a chore, you will not enjoy it.
Treat it like a conversation with ALLAH"



‎"Words Of Pious Husband.''
I wouldn't want Her to bring
breakfast in Bed...
I would rather have her wake me
up for 'Fajar' instead
Insha'ALLAH ..!" :)



Turn to ALLAH:
When you have a terrible day
You just want to scream
just turn to ALLAH
When your feeling so down
you have lost all hope
just turn to ALLAH
when your feeling betrayed
you just want to curse
just turn to ALLAH
when you can't see a way out
of a terrible situation
just turn to ALLAH
when your feeling like
you have no self esteem
just turn to ALLAH
when your feeling all ok and
the world is at your feet
just remember not to forget
ALLAH
you can then be certain He will
remember you !



The sun doesn’t lose its beauty when covered by the clouds. The same way your beauty doesn’t fade when being covered by Hijab.



When someone close to us lets us down, let's know that;
ALLAH is the One who is closest to us & He will never let us down!

•.✿."Sufficient for us is ALLAH !"•.✿.



Masha ALLAH
The love of mother for her children is infinite **
Obey your mother and make her happy always **



Do not let the people - your friends & family stop you from worshiping ALLAH, obeying His commands & staying away from His prohibitions! Do not forget that:

◕You will die alone,
◕you will enter your grave alone,
◕you will be questioned alone &
◕you will stand before ALLAH Alone!!




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When a Inventor made CAR..... People Appreciate the Inventor and use the car for his purpose as per the manual instruction given by INVENTOR.........:)

WHEN ALLAH create ALL like SUN MOON STONE WOOD MAN.....ETC. People Forgot the CREATOR..... and start worshiping the Creations....... Complete FALSEHOOD.........
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When no one else will listen. Turn to ALLAH.
When the whole world is against you. Pray to ALLAH.
When your heart is filled with pain and sadness. Cry to ALLAH.
No one can ever heal the pain, lighten the weight of the burden,
or lift the spirit other than ALLAH subhana wa ta'ala.
Ya ALLAH give us the strength to pass the test of this dunya
and enter Jannah and be with You Ya ALLAH.

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A mother can take care of TEN children but sometimes TEN children cant take care of one mother.

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Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater In’sha’ALLAH !!

Give her Love... She will give you her Heart...

Give her a House... She will give you a Home...

Give her Groceries... She will give you a Meal...

She multiplies and enlarges whatever she is given...

Treasure is your... Mother/Daughter/Sister/Wife....

Respect all women...... Respect is reciprocal...




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A Woman - one of the most beautiful creations of Allah Swt. You can feel her innocence in the form of a daughter, her care in the form of a sister, her warmth in the form of a friend, her passion in the form of a beloved, her dedication in the form of a wife, her divinity in the form of a mother.

A woman of real beauty smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress & grows brave through prayers..' ♥ ♥

A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape,
But a woman with strong iman prostrates in prayer to keep her soul in shape…

A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything,
But a woman with strong iman shows courage in the midst of fear…

A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her,
But a woman with strong iman gives the best of herself to everyone…

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids making the same in the future,
But a woman with strong iman realises life’s ‘mistakes’ can also be Allah’s blessings and capitalises on them…

A strong woman walks sure footedly…
But a woman with strong iman has sabr (patience) when she falls…

A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face,
But a woman with strong iman wears grace…

A strong woman strives to look beautiful and perfect,
But a woman with strong iman knows that she can possess nothing more attractive than the adornment of faith and the beauty of taqwa…

A strong woman has faith knowing she is strong enough for the journey,
But a woman with strong iman has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong…

May ALLAH guide us and help us to be the women and men of strong iman,

Aameen!

**As salaamu alaikum.. To my sisters who are hurting and see no end in sight...
ALLAH sees you.. Every tear you have cried, He will wipe away...

Trust in Him and believe.. It will get better... Hold your head up high and wipe your tears.. You are loved by so many people.. I am one of them....***

All About Women....!

When she is quite...million of things are running in her mind...

When she is not arguing...she is thinking deeply...

When she stares at you...she is wondering why she loves you so much, despite being taken for granted...

When she calls you everytime...she wants to know how you are doing cuz she really cares for you...

When she says 'I Love You'...she mean it...

When she says 'I Miss You'...no one in this whole world can miss you more than her...

When she says 'I Will Stand By You'....she will stand by you like a rock....InshaAllah...!

Wives are always special...she is said to be a 8th wonder...she is always a priceless treasure...never hurt her or do her wrong or take her for granted...
Cuz...

"A Pious Wife Is Man's Stongest Defence Against 'Satan' {Shaitaan}...!"

Are you your own best friend?

Sadly, most women are their own worst enemy. Who needs enemies when you can consult your harshest critic anytime you glance in a mirror? Logically, we should all be our own best friend, but it often isn’t the case. We reserve our harshest criticism for ourselves.

Learn now to be gentle with yourself. You deserve special treatment simply because you are special. Who best to comfort you, but you? Who best to compliment you, but you? Learning to love yourself is the greatest gift that you can give yourself. No expensive cosmetics, no retail therapy can deliver the inner warmth of knowing that you are happy being you.

When we love ourselves, it is no longer important that our hair is not perfect and etc... We don’t beat ourselves up for imagined imperfections anymore. In fact, we embrace our imperfections.

Today, look in the mirror and smile. The person there will smile right back. She loves you. Love her, too.

A Poem For my sisters :
sum1 will always B prettier.. sum1 will always B smarter..
sum of their houses will B bigger.. sum will drive a better car..
their children will do better in school..
and their husband will fix more things around the house..
so let it go, and luv u and ur circumstances.. THINK ABOUT IT!!!

A WISE woman with a beautiful HEART

Is BETTER than

An ARROGANT woman with a beautiful FACE

a SUCCESSFUL MUSLIM WOMEN : She is the one who discovers her inner joy in living and builds her inner strength with wisdom. She touches the life of others with her special talent ,flourishing it with warmth and kindness. She is the one,who shares the melody of her soul with those her life touches.Her heart flows with sensitivity and compassion Her smile brings joys and happiness She is the one who never stops loving and giving She never forgets sharing and forgiving She accepts each day as a gift from ALLAH,

Remember Islam Elevates Women. They Are The Pearls, Diamonds, Rubys & Emeralds Of Our Religion. Islam Doesn't Degrade Women. Never Has & Never Will. Don't Confuse Culture With Islam :)

A Woman♥♥♥
By Abdullah Azzam
The Shaikh answered:

"When Almighty Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He ,Subhana wa Taala made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
...
He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And lastly, He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She need no explaination for it.

"Pretty Woman"


It's the goodness in her heart that makes a woman pretty

It's her inner strength that makes a woman admirable

It's the sacrifice she makes a woman unique

It's her compromise with everything that makes her precious

She is beautiful not based on her looks but

What makes her beautiful is her inner beauty.

Ya Allah!
Enlighten what is Dark in Me,
Strengthen what is Weak in Me,
Mend what is Broken in Me,
Bind what is Bruised in Me,
...Heal what is Sick in Me,
Straighten what is Crooked in Me, and
Revive whatever Peace and Love has Died in Me.
AMEEN!!!






A womeN LovEs wiThouT Any spEciaL ReasoN....
Cares wiThouT any conDiTioN...
Laughs at her 0wn sTupiDiTy...
Cries at someONE else's pain...
Dedicated,
EmotionaL
&
SincEre...
That's you!!
That's me....
That's a "W0MEN"
And when She is a Muslimah...
She becomes the best Creation Of Almighty Allaah~F~
Say Alhamdulillaah 4 being a WOMAN...4 being A Muslimah!

A woman with real beauty; smiles through their troubles, becomes brave with disillusionment, develops courage with failure, and gathers strength through pain.