Arguing with a fool proves there are two

You should not look at what the person used to do, rather you should look at what kind of person they are today. The one who gets bogged down about people's pasts, is just like Iblees who said to Allah, "You created me from fire and you created him from clay..' (Ibn Taymiyyah) 

in the quran the instruction for men to lower their gaze carries the same weight as the instruction for women to cover up.

Knowledge Knocks On The Door Of Action. If it Receives A Reply, It Stays, Otherwise It Departs.” Sufyan al-Thawri Rahimahullah. 

When ALLAH leads you to the edge of difficulty,
Trust HIM fully !!!
Only two things will happen.
Either HE wil catch you when you fall
Or HE wil teach you how to fly ..!!! INSHA ALLAH