If someone says something mean ;to you, just shrug it off and dismiss it in a friendly, laid back manner, and pray that Allah shall forgive them.
May ALLAH give us strength and patience to be that polite.

Give gifts when others are not expecting and your gifts will be appreciated even if it's something small. -... inshaALLAH

ALLAH see all that we do .Fear ALLAH, Love ALLAH and hope that He forgive us.

Patience is of two kinds: patience over what pains you,
and patience against what you covet (desire).

- Ali ibn Abu Talib