Abu Darda [RA] said to his wife, ‘ If you see that i am angry, then appease me(appease mean; to bring to a state of peace, quiet, ease, calm, or contentment; pacify; soothe)and if i see that you are angry, i will appease you- otherwise why should we keep company with one another? ‘ When this saying reached Imam Zuhri, he said, ‘ That is how companionship should be.