When you look at a person, remember that
everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has probably changed them...
Beautiful people don't just happen. They have fought battles that no one knows about. And have received wounds no one can see. And have known pain no one can feel. They have picked up the broken pieces of their heart
whilst their hands were soaked with blood. You've gotta be strong to go through that and get out standing. All hero's have battle scars, and those battle scars only show that whatever was out to kill them, failed.
If you want a special place in someone's life then you have to earn it, you cannot just expect a person to be close and open with you, when you are not there for them in their times of need.You have to create that bond, the bond of trust and closeness so that a person feels confident enough to confide in you.
And btw, we don't always have to try to fix things, or always make things perfect, sometimes just being attentive and considerate is enough to change the heaviness that life brings
Just because some people choose to disregard your worth and treat you without kindness doesn't mean everyone will, and it certainly doesn't mean you have to imitate their behaviour. The truth is that the way other people treat us isn't about us—it’s about them and their own struggles, insecurities, and limitations. You don’t have to allow their judgement to become your truth.
You may not be able to control what other people say or how they act, but you can always choose how you treat yourself. You can choose who you surround yourself with, and who you let go of. And no matter what your circumstances, you can choose to believe in yourself and your worth.
Because at the end of the day, trying to please everyone is exhausting and impossible. No matter how you change or who you become, there will always be someone who doesn't approve. So instead of wasting your energy in a
futile attempt to become someone that other people want you to be, give yourself permission to be exactly who you are. And know that who you are is exactly enough.
The right people will find their way into your life. These are the people who will love and accept you wholeheartedly and without conditions. These are the people who matter. Let go of the rest.
The most difficult things are not those seen and known by the world but those deep within your soul, unseen and unknown by anyone except Allah. It is in this secret place that you experience trials after trials, fighting to win the
battle. The emotions that walks with you through the day and sleeps with you through the night leaving you deplete with no strength to fight. Silent screams that no one can hear. You try to speak but nothing can express the feeling of sadness in you chest. And then there are times when you are tempted to think....
'I’m all alone'.
But O Beautiful Souls! Know for sure, that GOD is with you and He SEES and there is not a single battle that your experiencing alone
"Positive thinking is not about expecting the best to happen every time, but accepting whatever happens is because Allaah has allowed it to happen. "
Alhamdulillah Ala'aa Kulli Haal!
Don't remind people of their past. You have no idea how long it may have taken them to try & forget it.
A short night, a heavy heart,
The list is long,
O Rabb! From where do I start?
You know it all, You know what I hide,
So heal me Ya Rahman, and let this pain subside!
I'm that very girl whom You taught how to walk after many falls.
I turn to You now, Much stronger than before,
Please do not desert me tonight, for I love You to the core!
Sometimes it's hard to go on with life because it all seems blurry and so meaningless. It's hurts to not enjoy what you loved the most, to always feel so empty inside, to forever be lonely even though you are surrounded by many. Oh, how you wish people actually saw what was inside of you, how you wish they could read your mind and comfort your aching heart, but you feel all alone in this strange state of painful emotions and heartache. It feels as though there is
an actual void in your heart,one you never knew existed. The worst thing about this is that you cannot even remember the last time you ever had a genuine smile and felt happy. Most often you break down in tears yet you don't
know or understand why your tears flow uncontrollably.
This pain your going through is so unbearable yet you choose to go through it alone and not share with anyone. So, you struggle to fake your smile, to fake your laughter and fake who you used to be. Often you seclude yourself so
the need to 'fake' anything does not rise. However, you really want this out of your system and would love someone to talk to, someone to lend you a shoulder to really cry on, but as you cannot think of a single person who will give you the comfort you need, say the right words to make you feel
better, you prefer going through it alone. The reality is though, people look at you but they never see the pain you hide inside. You ask 'Am I really good at faking this or do people simply ignore me? Or is there anyone who could
ever see through my eyes and see the scars in my heart?'
The answer is YES! There is someone who sees your every pain, hears your silent cries, and works very hard to heal your heart. It's no other but the One who created you from dust and the One you shall return to. Allah swt is closer to you than anyone and He can help you through anything. You just have to completely trust in His divine wisdom and give your heart to Him.
I know its hard to do that part because of feeling empty within, but know that help is only from Allah, so if it hurts too much and you have no place,no one to confide in, then be close to Him, talk to Him, cry, cry till you feel better. And
if all fails, keep a journal and write away all that pain, trust me, you are going to lose so many tears and will not be able to finish a page, but by the time you are done, you are going to feel a lot better insha Allah
I pray that Allah washes away the stress from your face and
remove the arrows of sorrow from your heart.
The best remedy for those who feel lonely, broken or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where it's all quiet, alone with the nature, where they can feel the closeness to Allah. Because only then does one feel that all is as it is should be and that Allah wishes to see people happy. Amidst the simple beauty of nature, I firmly believe that nature brings solace to all troubles
When we are lost in the darkness. When we are drifted on a sea of doubt and lost in deep sadness. Allah becomes our saviour, guiding light and strength.
He's the one who hears our voice when we are in turbulent waters and hears our silence that lies within. He's the one that calms us when our world comes crashing down before our eyes.
Allah's the one we turn to when no one understands us. His there to walk with us in our darkest times. And hold our trembling hands. He hears and sees our pain. And lifts us our weakest and painful times. He makes us stronger and wiser individuals.
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