Putting ourselves in the shoes of others momentarily in order to try to understand them better before commenting or acting against them is very important.
Many people condemn others without trying to see where they are coming from or why they have acted in a specific way or said something.
If we are sincere, we will understand one another better & possibly reduce much unwanted skepticism, hatred & enmity.
Describing others physical appearance using hurtful terms such as fat, ugly, too short, dwarf, skinny, big nose is a major sin.
The Messenger pbuh has warned us about using terms that would hurt a person.
We are all created by the Almighty who decides our features & although we should play our role to maintain the best possible health etc, we are not permitted to use degrading terms when refrring to anyone.
The Almighty loves us all & He Alone knows who is closer to Him in worship.
A small misunderstanding, minor dispute or problem automatically grows into a much bigger issue if it is not resolved or dealt with as soon as possible.
Satan chisels into the smallest crack making it appear to be a crater simply because it was not filled when it first appeared.
Relations break over the pettiest of matters because we allow time to pass unnecessarily or because we avoid the topic
whenever we have the opportunity.
Businesses crumble when outstanding matters or disputes are allowed to lay as they are. Family members stop seeing eye to eye due to the delay of the distribution of the estate of a deceased relative or it being distributed unfairly. A whole community or nation can disintegrate because of poor dispute management skills.
Good communication is essential for a healthy relationship. We must be able to raise anything that is bothering us with the relevant people and it should be addressed without delay.
An intelligent person is he who tries to resolve matters as soon as possible rather than leave them to bubble in the hearts of people until they reach the boiling point.
Businesses crumble when outstanding matters or disputes are allowed to lay as they are. Family members stop seeing eye to eye due to the delay of the distribution of the estate of a deceased relative or it being distributed unfairly. A whole community or nation can disintegrate because of poor dispute management skills.
Good communication is essential for a healthy relationship. We must be able to raise anything that is bothering us with the relevant people and it should be addressed without delay.
An intelligent person is he who tries to resolve matters as soon as possible rather than leave them to bubble in the hearts of people until they reach the boiling point.
If those without children complained about not having children, those with only boys complained about not having girls, those with only girls complained about not having boys and those with both complained about how much of a handful they are, then WHO is going to show gratitude & satisfaction with the Divine Decree of the Almighty?
Indeed, He chooses, we don’t!
So let’s stop complaining and start being thankful.
The Almighty definitely knows what is best for us!
Indeed, He chooses, we don’t!
So let’s stop complaining and start being thankful.
The Almighty definitely knows what is best for us!
A mother cannot be replaced by anyone! We MUST value our mothers before they are taken away.
It is an obligation to be respectful towards them, say kind words to them and appreciate everything they have done and continue doing for us!
A meal prepared at home by "mum" is far more valuable and blessed than tens of other meals even if it is plain & simple!
Once we marry, although life changes drastically, the status of a mum should never be forgotten.
Success lies in appreciating those closest to us!
It is an obligation to be respectful towards them, say kind words to them and appreciate everything they have done and continue doing for us!
A meal prepared at home by "mum" is far more valuable and blessed than tens of other meals even if it is plain & simple!
Once we marry, although life changes drastically, the status of a mum should never be forgotten.
Success lies in appreciating those closest to us!
When your world seems to be crumbling, remember that the Almighty will definitely come to your help.
When your road seems to be closed, remember that the Almighty will open many more new roads.
When you are let down by those closest to you, remember that the Almighty never let's you down so make Him even closer.
When you suffer a loss, remember that the Almighty rewards you upon your patience &
When your road seems to be closed, remember that the Almighty will open many more new roads.
When you are let down by those closest to you, remember that the Almighty never let's you down so make Him even closer.
When you suffer a loss, remember that the Almighty rewards you upon your patience &
endurance far more than what you have lost.
When you feel so lonely because everyone has left you, remember that the Almighty will never forsake you.
When you have sinned so much, remember that the Almighty will forgive you if you repent truly & return to His Path.
When you get up every morning, thank the Almighty for giving you another chance to mend your ways before you finally meet Him.
When you are sad, remember that to look for the path of He who created you for He Alone can make you truly happy.
Praise Him for indeed All praise is due to the one who loves us so much that He always declares Himself Most Compassionate, Most Merciful!
When you feel so lonely because everyone has left you, remember that the Almighty will never forsake you.
When you have sinned so much, remember that the Almighty will forgive you if you repent truly & return to His Path.
When you get up every morning, thank the Almighty for giving you another chance to mend your ways before you finally meet Him.
When you are sad, remember that to look for the path of He who created you for He Alone can make you truly happy.
Praise Him for indeed All praise is due to the one who loves us so much that He always declares Himself Most Compassionate, Most Merciful!
Attacking others does not display any merit of our own & proving others wrong doesn't teach people what is right.
No matter how good a message is, a negative mind will only draw negative conclusions from it, failing to see anything positive.
A negative mind creates negatives from a positive message, whilst a positive mind extracts positives from a negative message.
Always try to look at messages from angles that benefit us most, bearing in mind that even if it is not immediately relevant to us, we can still learn a thing or two.
Different personal circumstances make people understand messages through a different light, so what seems negative to us may be the most beneficial to others.
A negative mind creates negatives from a positive message, whilst a positive mind extracts positives from a negative message.
Always try to look at messages from angles that benefit us most, bearing in mind that even if it is not immediately relevant to us, we can still learn a thing or two.
Different personal circumstances make people understand messages through a different light, so what seems negative to us may be the most beneficial to others.
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